Men, in general, function on an action-reaction basis. If you hit a nail with a hammer - action, the nail will be driven into the wood - reaction. Sometimes it's hard for us to understand God's action-reaction principles. Let's take prayer for instance.
If we take the time to pray - especially about something specific - we wonder why we don't immediately see the results of our prayers. We forget that the simple act of praying - turning our need over to God instead of just handling it ourselves - glorifies God. That act in itself is the right thing to do, especially when we put aside something we deem important to do it. We honor God by praying and recognizing that He is the source of our answer. (In His great love, He even provides answers throughout our lives for things that aren't even on our radar screen, just because He chooses to bless us.)
Those seeming delays to our prayer requests accomplish far more than we can imagine. Only God can see the whole picture. While we're waiting, He's refining heart motives, orchestrating circumstances, clearing a path, developing patience ... and maybe even preparing our hearts to receive the answer to our prayers. This may take some time. In terms of action-reaction time, it could become days, months, even years! As husbands and fathers, we need to put aside the concept of immediate answers and trust in the principles of the kingdom of God.
If you are seeking God for a specific need, don't give up if He hasn't chosen to work on your timetable. He started swinging the hammer at the time of your prayer, maybe even before. The nail will be impacted in God's proper timing.
Let's talk more!